Has people pleasing become a problem for you?
Do you notice that you put others first, leave yourself out of the equation, losing what matters to you and abandoning yourself in order to keep others happy?
There are very specific drivers occurring within the behavioral pattern of people pleasing and when you see these drivers clearly, and the root level solution to break free, it makes so much more sense.
In this episode we cover:
1. Why people pleasing is a double (or triple!) edged sword.
2. The gifts, talents, strengths and innate Soul Self beauty that contributes to people pleasing, that when harnessed will support you instead of suppress you.
3. The specific drivers that sit behind this pattern, so you can see if you have 1, 2 or all 3 of these happening.
4. The MOST important thing to focus on if you want to embody your Soul Self in daily life, to be calm, confident, free and content in who you are, to be and do aligned to your intuition, while also honoring your relationships
Let's dive in!
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3 Responses
Surely your advice does not apply when the people you go out of your way to help are people who have no money – a single mother with two small kids and an ailing mother. I must admit, the nicer I behave, the more demands are put to me. Been helping them for 30 years ever since they lived under a bridge near my house. I am now 87 and on a very minimal pension and can no longer continue pleasing them.
Thanks for your very lucid talk.
Hi B, Thank you so very much for this video about People Pleasing! My daily challenge is much improved after watching your Soul purpose Videos recently! I Really AM Enlightening because I am practicing Getting out of my own way and self taking my mind with Positive thoughts now with the Tools you have so Graciously shared! I have learned So much!
People Pleaseing Is right on track as I now know which part of me needs to be worked on and the part that is for the Love of Family and Deserving Friends and Charity!
Thank you Very Much 💞 Janice Mattson.
So glad this was useful and sending much love to you Janice! Bx