Your inner system is always trying to help you even if its help is misguided and based on flawed logic.
Our subconscious and nervous system don't do logic, they do self protection, patterns and familiarity.
The way out of recurring problems and patterns is to (a) understand what the roots of those issues are and then (b) lovingly lead each layer of your system out of that old pattern and into a new experience!
For supportive pathways where together we will help you make that shift now: