People will judge you.
That's human nature.
Think about it – you judge people even when you don't want to or mean to. It just happens, as you weigh up whether people are aligning to your values, preferences and expectations.
So make a choice with me today.
Choice #1 – BE SILENT, SMALL & PLEASE THEM
The less you say, the smaller you become, the more you please others, the less likely you'll encounter their judgments.
This creates short term gain (avoiding judgment) but long term pain (you are not yourself, you are not free, you can't be fully happy).
Choice #2 – BE YOU
The more you are truly YOU, taking up space, being who the Universe/Source/Creator made you to be, with all your needs, wants, expression and dynamics free flowing…
This creates short term gain (you are free!) and long term gain (you are free!)
And the price you have to pay for this?
Maybe no price. Or maybe…
A few raised eyebrows.
Disapproving looks.
Unhelpful commentary.
i.e. You have to be WILLING to let people project their inner world. Their views, their opinions, their “stuff” – as they react to you from their unconsciousness.
And the UPSIDE?
Aside from the HUGE benefit of being yourself and being free (meaning peace, joy, happiness and flow) – you also get an additional payback.
When you are truly you, then the people who are “your people” will be able to really SEE you and HEAR you, and energetically SENSE you and FIND you. You will ATTRACT all the high vibe people who are aligned to your consciousness, to your energy, to your values, to your interests and passions.
The moment you are willing to BE WITH other people being judgy, and not shrink back, is the moment you become free.
You take back your POWER from them, and you reclaim it to live your life the way you want. On your terms. Shining who you really are.