How to Respond to 7 Negative Thoughts Keeping You Stuck
Feeling Stuck? 7 Common Thoughts that Keep You There
If you’re feeling in a rut, without hope, not living fully, and maybe… you’ve kinda given up on yourself or life? Here are 7 common negative thoughts that will arise…
- What’s the point?
- I can’t change my circumstances.
- I’m too old.
- I can’t do what I want, as I need to take care of others.
- I should just be okay where I am.
- This is just how life is.
- I had a purpose once but it’s over.
Powerful Reframes to These Negative Thoughts
Sound familiar? If this is you… AND you feel a stirring inside for change, AND you would love a life of purpose and magic no matter your age or stage of life… but you can’t see how…
Here’s some soul truth and divine power to reset you!
What follows is said with much love from me to you. And notice how I reframe these negative thoughts, as I’m showing you in practice HOW YOU CAN respond to your mind anytime, anywhere to get back into the slipstream of your life!
“You are one of the few coaches/therapist/counsellor type persons who I have felt has really understood me, seen me and pinpointed exactly what I needed.”
But what’s the point? You’re ALIVE is the point, and you’re still here because there is MORE for you. Your soul and Source want you to dance with life!
But I can’t change my circumstances? Yes you can. You can change all the bits that are needed for you to live more expansively. When you look objectively, a path will reveal.
But I’m too old? You’re never too old for purpose and magic! Even for soul goals that seem they can’t be achieved at a certain age, there’s a version of it that can.
But I need to take care of others? As a caretaker, you will always tell yourself this. There’ll always be someone who needs you. Until one day you also INCLUDE yourself. Source didn’t put you here to be excluded.
But maybe I should just be okay where I am? How does that feel?! Does that feel like magic and joy to you? Or does that feel like settling and saying you can’t have what you truly actually want? Notice how your mindset FEELS in your body. Anything negative, limiting and based on old conditioning will feel heavy, contracted and suppressing. Anything positive, limitless and based on your SOUL calling you forward, will feel light, right, hopeful, magical and expansive.
But this is just how life is. Is that so? If you say it is, then it is. If you say life is just hum drum, mundane, filled with routine and obligations, and hard stuff and responsibilities and lack, then it is and it will continue to be. If you say life is without meaning or purpose or magic, then it is and will continue to be. If you say this is all you’re able to have, do and be, then so it is. OR if you want it to be different, just respond to these negative thoughts by saying, “Life IS however I choose it to be. I choose my life to be _____”.
“You are one of the few coaches/therapist/counsellor type persons who I have felt has really understood me, seen me and pinpointed exactly what I needed.”
I had a purpose once but it’s over now. This is a common misconception. Thinking that we have only ONE purpose in life, and that our purpose is fixed and finite. It is not. You have purpose at every age and stage of your life. As you evolve and move through the seasons of your life (your soul journey and your actual life circumstances) your purpose evolves with you. You will unfold into NEW and DEEPER and HIGHER versions of your Self and your purpose. So if you feel like your purpose was your children, and now they’re raised and out living their own life, that purpose is NOT over, it just looks different. And if you felt your purpose was some an or career but that’s over now due to physical limitations, age or financial reasons, that purpose is NOT over, it just wants to be expressed in a different way. Or if your life circumstances are burdening you and you think you have to deal with the “problem” before you can have purpose and magic… think again. It all exists, all the time. When you know how to look for it. In fact, understanding the purpose and magic INSIDE the problem is often what will dissolve it!
No matter where you stand right now, your soul and Source are CALLING you to live fully. That means as you are, where you are, from what you have. There are NO limits except the ones your mind made up. Remember this quote (I absolutely adore it!)…
“Out of nothing. And out of no way. A way will be made.” – Rev Michael Beckwith
What story will you tell yourself from this moment on?
How will you respond to the whirlpool of negative thoughts in your mind?
You CAN respond with power, and reframe anything!
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“You are one of the few coaches/therapist/counsellor type persons who I have felt has really understood me, seen me and pinpointed exactly what I needed.”