Do I Have to Heal Myself Before I Can Have What I Want?

Can you have love if you don’t really love yourself?

Can you have money and prosperity if you don’t have an abundant mindset?

Can you have health and wellness if you have negative perception of your body and self image?

Self help may leaving you feeling like you can’t have what you want “out there” unless you have healed yourself fully “in here”. And it’s true that your INSIDE creates your outer reality. But it’s not black and white in the extreme.

Of course you can have sprinklings of all the goodness while you’re on your healing journey and you’re letting go of all those old limitations to step into your most powerful mindset, energy and innate divine wholeness!

But the litmus test for all things is HOW YOU FEEL. Life is just one big FEELING EXPERIENCE. Everything you want is so you can FEEL a certain way. EVERYTHING.

So even if you get “all the things” you want “out there”, don’t expect outside things to fill an inside void. They can soothe the surface, but they can’t resolve an inner distortion.

The true salve for you to FEEL all the joy and magic and contentedness and love is to come home to your Self fully inside.

You can do that any moment of any day. Pause, put a hand on your heart and tell yourself the truth of your higher Self. I am love. I am all that is. I am divine. I am whole. I am complete. I am enough. All is well. There is more than enough. There is nothing I’m missing. I am here to witness the magnificence of who I really am, and have always been. All is well.

Then watch as the outer reality mirrors back to you this truth to even greater degrees. And watch as your inner peace and content rises like a tide to meet your heart and stays there giving you the fullness you have always longed to feel. A fullness that is not created by fixing anything. For there is nothing to fix. There was no void, nothing was ever missing.

It’s just when you recognize your Self and you come home to that deepest you, dropping all the mental and emotional baggage that is not true, that all FEELS… WHOLE.

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